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piplover ([personal profile] piplover) wrote2009-06-23 09:59 am
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That's... unexpected

Wow. I have drama in my life. Of the romantic kind. Who would have thought? Oh, Flist, I need your advice, because I am so out of the game I am confused! [Poll #1420072]

[identity profile] valderys.livejournal.com 2009-06-23 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Ok, if he'll let you, you could talk to Boy 1 - Boy 2 sounds like a better bet, but that's neither here nor there if you like Boy 1 better, because you'll always mildly regret stuff. You are perfectly at liberty to date Boy 2, Boy 1 has made that perfectly clear, but it in no way surprises me that Boy 1 is all pissy about it now. If you can talk to him about it, maybe you can find out whether jealousy will make him realise that actually he'd quite like an actual relationship now. Of course, him being a boy and therefore emotionally retarded, this may not be possible, but it *might* be worth trying.

[identity profile] piplover.livejournal.com 2009-06-24 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
I would love to talk to Boy 1, but he's been pretty distant, and the only way I've been able to speak to him is at work, and this I think requires a setting someplace else. I don't want to hurt him, because I do like him and care for him, but I'm also thinking that he had his chance and missed it. Boy 2 was very sweet and respectful today, and we're planning on going out again. I hope Boy 1 will stay my friend, because I do care for him, but...