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Day Seven: Four turn-offs.
1) People who don't wash or brush your teeth. I think it's disgusting, and I won't get near you if you smell like you don't know the meaning of soap and water.
2) Smoking. It's one of the sure fire things that sets my asthma off, and just being around someone who smokes can be enough to trigger it.
3) Manipulating. Especially the mind games that some people play, or the "woe is me, love me or I will fall into despair" games.
4) Clingyness and neediness. It's nice to be needed and wanted, but I want someone who has their own life, their own friends, and who isn't going to fall into a pit of despair if I make plans with someone else. I have my own life, I want the other person to have their's as well. Meeting in the middle and creating a new niche in the person's life is part of the fun of a relationship.
1) People who don't wash or brush your teeth. I think it's disgusting, and I won't get near you if you smell like you don't know the meaning of soap and water.
2) Smoking. It's one of the sure fire things that sets my asthma off, and just being around someone who smokes can be enough to trigger it.
3) Manipulating. Especially the mind games that some people play, or the "woe is me, love me or I will fall into despair" games.
4) Clingyness and neediness. It's nice to be needed and wanted, but I want someone who has their own life, their own friends, and who isn't going to fall into a pit of despair if I make plans with someone else. I have my own life, I want the other person to have their's as well. Meeting in the middle and creating a new niche in the person's life is part of the fun of a relationship.