What friends are for!

[piplover]

I just had a very unique movie experiance. I went to see Dodge Ball with two friends, both male. One of them started to hit on me, taking my hand, rubbing my leg, and even tried to kiss me at one point. I love him to death, but ONLY as a friend. In fact, when I leaned over to whisper to him to "Behave!" was when he tried to kiss me, lol!
My other friend, knowing I was having this difficulty, and neither one of us wanting to hurt the other guy's feelings, reached his arm over my shoulder and started to rub the other guy's shoulder. I think that guy- holding- my- hand thought that I was rubbing his shoulder, because he let it go on for about two minutes, before he looked up and realized it was my other friend. He quickly swatted the offending hand.
He let go of my hand after that.
Both of them are really good friends, and the one who is hitting on me is an absolute sweety. I just need to make sure he realizes that I am not interested in anything more than friendship.
If you think it's a bit odd to have someone you're not dating hold your hand, well, all I can say is that a lot of my good friends are very touchy-feely, and I usually hold my freind's hands, even when I'm with Lucky. He is the same way with a lot of his friends.
All in all, it was a fun night. Now I just have to have a talk with my friend, and we can all laugh about it down the road.

Comments

[glorfinniel.livejournal.com]

The moment I finished reading that entry I was reminded of this boy who wouldn't leave me alone for months.

I'm not such a touchy feely person but he wouldn't take no for an answer and would always try to hug me or put his hands on my waist. Very unnerving and awkward.

i found what you said rather amusing though. Must be terribly flattering, if not a little awkward! :)

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Oh, it is flattering, but I want to slap him on the back of the hand and say, "Bad boy!"
He really is a sweety, but he's a horny sweety right now.
*sigh*

[glorfinniel.livejournal.com]

Lol!

Ah well, boys eh? :-P

[piplover.livejournal.com]

True, very true. Maybe someone will invent a boy-spray. Rather like bug-spray, but without the icky smell. Just one squirt will last all day!

[glorfinniel.livejournal.com]

LOL!

oh, the images!!

If that were possible...yes, very handy!

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Every girl should have one. Small, easy to carry, and makes her day run so much smoother when that annoying flirt will not take a few hints and leave!

[glorfinniel.livejournal.com]

Hehe, it's been a while since that's happened to me though!!

Do they have a sell by date? or do they last forever so you don't need to purchase a new one?

Hmmm, what of a name?

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Boy-B-Gone! And one squirt will last for a day, or a few hours depending on how much of a squirt you use. And one bottle should last forever, unless you really, really don't like boys!

[glorfinniel.livejournal.com]

Lol!

Brilliant!

We really should try and make that. We'd make a fortune!!

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Ohh, I can just see it now! We would be billionairs in a week, lol!

[glorfinniel.livejournal.com]

Hehe, fantastic!!

Then I could buy a laptop and camera afterall!!

HEck, I could buy a thousand of them each!!

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Ohhh, I could pay off my car! And by a house! And get a laptop! Oh, we should get started right away, lol!

[glorfinniel.livejournal.com]

Yes, yes, definitely!!

Right, who'll be doing what then?

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Ummm, I'll design the label, and since you just took chemisitry, you can design the product, lol! Remember, it must have a pleasing odor!

[glorfinniel.livejournal.com]

Lol!

Pleasing just to women, or both men and women?

If we make it like a perfume, we would seem less suspicious!

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Oh, good idea! And then once men smell it, pow! They decide that maybe it would be better to stand on the other side of the street!

[glorfinniel.livejournal.com]

Lol, yup, exactly. :)