As everyone else has already said, from the sounds of it, Boy 1 is only acting pissy because of the possibility that his benefits without strings might be cut off if Boy 2 were to enter the picture in a more serious manner. Even though you're still not sure about Boy 2, don't give up the chance of something with some permanence when Boy 1 has already told you he has no interest whatsoever in your relationship going beyond "benefits" stage. As the commentor above said, things become much more complicated once a friendship enters the whole with benefits thing. In the end, you have to decide what YOU want more. A friendship and sex with a man who has told you that is all he will ever want from you or possibly, friendship, sex and an actual relationship with the guy that is, from the sounds of it, trying to treat you with the respect, attention and caring that you deserve and, again, from the sounds of it, are not getting from Boy 1.
*huggles* Good luck with whatever you decide honey.
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Date: 2009-06-23 06:49 pm (UTC)*huggles* Good luck with whatever you decide honey.