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What friends are for!
Jun. 20th, 2004 09:35 pmI just had a very unique movie experiance. I went to see Dodge Ball with two friends, both male. One of them started to hit on me, taking my hand, rubbing my leg, and even tried to kiss me at one point. I love him to death, but ONLY as a friend. In fact, when I leaned over to whisper to him to "Behave!" was when he tried to kiss me, lol!
My other friend, knowing I was having this difficulty, and neither one of us wanting to hurt the other guy's feelings, reached his arm over my shoulder and started to rub the other guy's shoulder. I think that guy- holding- my- hand thought that I was rubbing his shoulder, because he let it go on for about two minutes, before he looked up and realized it was my other friend. He quickly swatted the offending hand.
He let go of my hand after that.
Both of them are really good friends, and the one who is hitting on me is an absolute sweety. I just need to make sure he realizes that I am not interested in anything more than friendship.
If you think it's a bit odd to have someone you're not dating hold your hand, well, all I can say is that a lot of my good friends are very touchy-feely, and I usually hold my freind's hands, even when I'm with Lucky. He is the same way with a lot of his friends.
All in all, it was a fun night. Now I just have to have a talk with my friend, and we can all laugh about it down the road.
My other friend, knowing I was having this difficulty, and neither one of us wanting to hurt the other guy's feelings, reached his arm over my shoulder and started to rub the other guy's shoulder. I think that guy- holding- my- hand thought that I was rubbing his shoulder, because he let it go on for about two minutes, before he looked up and realized it was my other friend. He quickly swatted the offending hand.
He let go of my hand after that.
Both of them are really good friends, and the one who is hitting on me is an absolute sweety. I just need to make sure he realizes that I am not interested in anything more than friendship.
If you think it's a bit odd to have someone you're not dating hold your hand, well, all I can say is that a lot of my good friends are very touchy-feely, and I usually hold my freind's hands, even when I'm with Lucky. He is the same way with a lot of his friends.
All in all, it was a fun night. Now I just have to have a talk with my friend, and we can all laugh about it down the road.
