That's... unexpected

[piplover]

Wow. I have drama in my life. Of the romantic kind. Who would have thought? Oh, Flist, I need your advice, because I am so out of the game I am confused! [Poll #1420072]

Comments

[tarlanx]

Boy 1 is a user. He wants all the benefits with none of the commitment. He will drop you whenever it isn't convenient for HIM.

Boy 2 is actually showing some respect and interest in YOU.

Now Boy 2 is on the scene, Boy 1 is getting possessive because he is losing the 'good thing he has going at no cost to himself'. If you dropped Boy 2 then Boy 1 will just revert to using you again.

So... I think you would be wise to give Boy 2 a chance.

[melanyebaggins.livejournal.com]

*agrees completely*

[piplover.livejournal.com]

I think you're 100% right. Boy 2 was very sweet and respectful today, and it was a very fun date. We're going out again next week. My only lingering worry is that I don't want to hurt Boy 1, even if he is being stupid at the moment.

[tarlanx]

If Boy1 truly is a friend then he will still be a friend - after all, what you had was no-strings-attached.

Glad your date went well.