Wow. I have drama in my life. Of the romantic kind. Who would have thought? Oh, Flist, I need your advice, because I am so out of the game I am confused! [Poll #1420072]
You're perfectly free to pursue something with Boy 2...after all, Boy 1 made his position perfectly clear. And since you got no confirmation from him about today, then nuts to him. Don't wait around on someone who told you plainly they don't want anything serious from you, 'cause that'll just hold you back. It's irrational of him to tell you he doesn't want a relationship with you, but expect you to not move on to someone who might.
Having said that, you still don't know Boy 2's intentions. Be careful.
I will be careful, I promise. Boy 2 was very respectful today, and very sweet. I'm still a little leery, but we had fun, and we're going out again next week. I still worry about Boy 1, because I don't want to hurt him, but he had his chance, and honestly, I think he missed out.
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Date: 2009-06-23 06:05 pm (UTC)Having said that, you still don't know Boy 2's intentions. Be careful.
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Date: 2009-06-24 03:15 am (UTC)I will be careful, I promise. Boy 2 was very respectful today, and very sweet. I'm still a little leery, but we had fun, and we're going out again next week. I still worry about Boy 1, because I don't want to hurt him, but he had his chance, and honestly, I think he missed out.