Breaking Heart

[piplover]

Can anyone offer any advice on how to deal with a breaking heart? My fiance, at least I think he is still my fiance, just sent me a very hasty email telling me that he's sorry for being a nuisance and hopes he didn't interfere with my life too much.
I love him with all my heart, but I don't know what to do. He wrote it because I pushed an issue that we have been debating for some time. I won't say anymore on that.
I just don't know what to do. My heart feels shattered, and I don't think I can keep going if he breaks up with me. I just hate this long distance! I hate that I can't be there for him when he needs me, because I know he is hurting and lonely and scared. I wish I were in Iraq right now so I could be at least on the same continent as him.
But for now, all I can do is write him back and ask him not to chuck our whole relationship. I just don't know what to do. I feel broken.

Comments

[shirebound]

I just hate this long distance! I hate that I can't be there for him when he needs me, because I know he is hurting and lonely and scared. I wish I were in Iraq right now so I could be at least on the same continent as him.

Can you tell him that? It's possible that he's overreacting to something, or is interpreting things differently than you are. Tell him that far from interfering with your life, to you, he IS your life, and that this relationship is worth fighting to save. Just keep the communication going so the two of you can get a handle on the other's thoughts and feelings.

*hugs you*

[piplover.livejournal.com]

*big hug back*
I wrote him and told him he would have to push me away kicking and screaming, but I am worried that he will simply delete my emails and throw away my snail mail. I hate feeling so powerless and like I'm groveling, but I just don't want to think of life without him.