Breaking Heart

[piplover]

Can anyone offer any advice on how to deal with a breaking heart? My fiance, at least I think he is still my fiance, just sent me a very hasty email telling me that he's sorry for being a nuisance and hopes he didn't interfere with my life too much.
I love him with all my heart, but I don't know what to do. He wrote it because I pushed an issue that we have been debating for some time. I won't say anymore on that.
I just don't know what to do. My heart feels shattered, and I don't think I can keep going if he breaks up with me. I just hate this long distance! I hate that I can't be there for him when he needs me, because I know he is hurting and lonely and scared. I wish I were in Iraq right now so I could be at least on the same continent as him.
But for now, all I can do is write him back and ask him not to chuck our whole relationship. I just don't know what to do. I feel broken.

Comments

[rabidsamfan.livejournal.com]

Just keep talking to him, by whatever means. He ought to get the hint sooner or later that you don't find him a nuisance. I wish I had better advice. You're right about how the distance isn't helping. Maybe someone who's with him will tell him the same thing.

[piplover.livejournal.com]

I hope so. I asked my other friend Adam, who is also over there, to give him a kick in the butt for me. If he listens to anyone, it would be Adam.