Missing my sweety

[piplover]

I was able to speak with my sweety today, and found out that he may be getting deployed next week. *sigh* I just wish that we had a bit more time, now that he finally has his computer up and we are able to talk.
I have lost count of all the poeple that keep telling me that our relationship will never work, and think I shall strangle the next person who says so. Yes, a long distance relationship is very hard, but I know in my heart that so long as you love the person, and they love you, and you both make an effort to keep in contact, then everything will work out.
Why must people be so negative, and yet think they are being helpful? Grrrrr.

Comments

[luv2hobbits.livejournal.com]

If you love anyone, and are willing to take responsibility of a relationship, no matter how far, well, it has to work out!!!

O!! I forgot to tell you!! I added you to my friends list. I hope thats alright!!

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Of course! And I shall add you to mine!

Friend

[luv2hobbits.livejournal.com]

Thank you!!

[rabidsamfan.livejournal.com]

Of course it will work out! It's the "making an effort" part that makes the difference!

[rosiegardener.livejournal.com]

don't let people tell you such things, a long distance relationship is hard but there's no reason why it should not work when you really love and trust each other ! I know many people who have a happy long distance relationship ! Keep your head up girl !

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Thank you so much. It is so nice to hear something positive for once, rather than a constant state of nevers. I know that the next two years will be very hard, but all I have to do is imagine all those couples of WW2, who survived such horrible separtion and uncertainty and still managed to have marriages that lasted for 50 years.
Thank you, again, for being so supportive. It really means a lot.

[ansostuff.livejournal.com]

Don`t let people tell you that it`s not going to work. If you´re both determined that it will work, I`m sure it will hold. It`s a great thing that he has his computer up now. I´m not saying it won´t be hard, but I´m hoping and praying for you that it will work out fine.

Maybe people are negative because they envy you that you manage?

I had my boyfriend living 500 km away (I know, it´s not as far as you have yours), and we managed the distance. When we broke up it was not the distance that was the issue.

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Thanks! Its nice to hear positive from people, instead of the negative.
HUGS!

[melilot-hill.livejournal.com]

I think people always manage to find something nagative. When I went to college I met the guy who's now my husband. We were in the same claas and the people around us said our relationship would never last because we saw each other everyday. Well, we proved them wrong. So don't listen what other people say, but listen to your heart.

[piplover.livejournal.com]

I am, but it is so hard sometimes not to strangle the next person who says, "Oh, he's in Germany, he's already cheating on you, just give up?"
I had someone tell me that exactly. I had to fight the urge not to kick him.

[pippinswolf.livejournal.com]

Even a long distance relationship is better than none at all, as it is in my case, and you are absolutely right, if two people genuinely care for each other, they are separated only by distance.
((you))

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Exactly. I just wish people around here weren't so determined to prove it otherwise. I tell people I am engaged, and they start hitting on me. It's enough to make me become a hermit!

[sila-lumenn.livejournal.com]

Don't listen to the people who say your relationship won't last. They are not you. They don't know how you feel. When two people truly love each other, they can overcome anything! And besides, it's not like you are going to be far away from each other forever.

[piplover.livejournal.com]

Exactly! Its only two years, and though it sounds like forever, I know we can make it. The hardest part will be that he is getting deployed soon, and by the time he is coming back, I'll be heading out! I can't wait to get out of the Army!